(March 21st to April 19th)
1. You always want to be the dominant one in a relationship.
2. So much so, you don’t take your partner’s feelings into consideration.
3. While you have a good heart, you struggle with showing it.
Aries have a very strong and tough personality to get along with. It takes someone who is patient and confident because they will pick you apart and tear you down.
Even though you might have good intentions you struggle in clearly articulating your emotions. Love comes out in the form of worrying. Wanting to help comes out in the form of overly critical. Wanting what is best for someone comes out in the form of tearing them down sometimes. It’s going to cost you a lot of your relationships if you don’t learn how to properly convey your emotions and simply hide behind the vulnerable ones.
(April 20th to May 21st)
1. You don’t think when you speak.
2. You think about yourself too much.
3. You don’t let people see your soft heart.
A Taurus has a bark that’s worse than their bite and they have a tough time letting people in.
Despite the fact you might say all the wrong things and offend people sometimes, you care you just don’t know how to clearly articulate it. So it comes out a little too blunt and honest sometimes. The best thing you can do is learn to listen closely and try and understand.
(May 22nd to June 21st)
1. You think too much about the destination, not the journey.
2. When you fall it’s never slow.
3. You don’t see what you have until it’s gone.
Geminis tend to focus a lot on themselves and their goals.
While it’s wonderful to be goal oriented and super into whatever occupies your time, you are the first to put your job before your relationships. Success is great but not if you don’t have someone to share it with. You see things in black and white. It is possible to not choose one over the other. Then occasionally when you do find a love you jump so quickly into it next thing you know you’re marrying the person by the second date and you scare them off. When you aren’t jumping face first into relationships, you aren’t valuing the relationships you have. Sometimes someone has been there for you so long, you spent so much time focusing on other things, then they leave because they weren’t valued enough in if they loved you.
(June 22nd to July 22nd)
1. You are almost too nice sometimes.
2. That people think they can walk all over you.
3. But it’s important if you want your relationships to go a certain way, demand it.
A Cancer is one of the kindest people who has an old soul.
With that, you end up in a lot of not so healthy relationships because opposites attract. You go for the type of person you can fix. You go for the person who is a project. You go for the relationships where you have to invest a lot to maintain it. And you are so used to giving yourself to everyone it doesn’t feel like a task. But you look at yourself and I know there are moments you feel empty. There are moments you wish someone would give half as much as you do. There are moments you just want a simple relationship. Look at the people you go for. Sometimes it’s okay to change it up a bit. Sometimes it’s okay to play it safe. Sometimes you have to just go for the nice person because that’s what you deserve.
(July 23rd to August 22nd)
1. You swear you hate relationships and feelings.
2. And you play it off like you don’t care at all.
3. But someone is going to make you fall fast and hard when you are least expecting it.
A Leo is completely content without relationships.
You focus so much more on your friends and keep your family at arm’s length when they annoy you. But you’re the funny person. The one people say are cute and cool to hang out with. Whether you’ve fallen for people who haven’t wanted more or just decided to stop dating, you just don’t want a relationship at all. But someone is not going to give up on you as easily as others have. You push people away out of fear. But the truth is the happiest you’ll ever be in your life is the day you find the courage to let your walls down a little. Because when it’s the right person it won’t hurt like it might have and you won’t have to resort to the defense mechanism of pretending not to care.
(August 23rd to September 22nd)
1. You are overly critical of yourself.
2. You are too series sometimes.
3. You are very shy at first.
A Virgo is one of the more sensitive signs who struggle sometimes in finding a balance of living in the moment.
You tend to focus a lot on the future and worry about the past. You put up walls out of fear of getting hurt. When it comes to relationships, you look for someone who is everything you can imagine and judge people a little too quickly before realizing they could make you happy. It’s admirable to hold yourself to a high standard but sometimes you’re too hard on yourself. This impacts what you look for in a partner. Struggling to accept yourself will make it hard for you to accept others. Being so series also isn’t what life is about. It’s okay to let yourself be happy sometimes.
(September 23rd to October 22nd)
1. You fear making the same mistakes in your past that you hold yourself back.
2. You compare everyone to your ex.
3. You don’t love yourself enough.
Libras love really hard. They show their affection through gestures and try really hard to sweep people off their feet.
While it’s admirable and people should be more like you, you have to ask yourself are you doing things because it’s genuine or are you overcompensating because you don’t feel good enough? Rejection in your past has made you question yourself. But instead of looking at it as someone else’s loss, you look at your reflection and pick yourself apart. Take a step back and really try and improve the relationship you have with yourself. Once you do that, you won’t look back and think your ex-was that great. You compare everyone to that person but the truth is if they were that great they wouldn’t have ended the relationship. And because you got hurt you don’t let others in. You close off a piece of yourself out of fear. But the only way to experience love like that again is to be brave enough to take that chance.
(October 23rd to November 22nd)
1. You don’t give people a fair chance.
2. You don’t have realistic standards for a partner.
3. You struggle with forgiving your past.
Scorpios tend to be a very judgmental both of themselves and others.
Having high standards and really high expectations leads you to much success because you put a lot of pressure on yourself to be the best. But those standards are hard to live up to and even harder for someone else to. The greatest struggle a Scorpio has is not looking at the negative parts of someone and judging them based on that rather than giving them a fair chance. As well as holding grudges. You fight with a Scorpio next thing you know they are putting you are far in your place you don’t even know what to say but that need to want to always be right will ruin a lot of relationships. And the fact you don’t give people more than one chance will lead to you letting really good people go.
(November 23rd to December 21st)
1. You love very hard.
2. But you’re stubborn.
3. Sometimes you are clingy.
Sags tend to love people with everything they have in them.
You get hurt a lot which is why you are so guarded. The thing about a Sagittarius is it takes them a while to get over someone and they allow themselves time to be alone and feel the pain. You close yourself off and swear off love even though you are one of the signs that need it most. You tend to really test people and put up obstacles out of fear of getting hurt again. But once you are ready to love, you do have very stable relationships. It’s just those relationships become the center of your life which is why it hurts so much when they end. So be careful.
(December 22nd to January 20th)
1. You have a nag for choosing the wrong people.
2. And always seeing the best in them.
3. But when something goes wrong you don’t walk away.
A Capricorn is someone with a good heart who likes to see the best in people even when someone shows them the opposite.
Whether it’s a lack of confidence or just need for a partner, you tend to get in the habit of choosing the wrong people. And even though your friends and family want what’s best for you, sometimes they wonder if you do too. Be wary about who you let into your life and in your heart because falling in love with the wrong people is easy to do.
(January 21st to February 18th)
1. You reject and repress deep emotions.
2. No one realizes how sensitive you are.
3. You need something consistent.
An Aquarius struggles in trying to be something they are not.
It’s okay to admit you want a relationship and something serious and stable. While everyone else might do the casual thing, you aren’t that type. While you have a really good heart and care deeply about but people, you’ve been hurt a lot in your past so you’re guarded. You hide how you feel because you were taught emotions are a sign of weakness but in reality, emotions are what connect you to people on a deeper level. It’s okay you are different. It’s okay you feel things more. That is your strength and someone is going to come into your life and love you so deeply you aren’t afraid of it.