We all say things that anger or upset the other person. But sometimes, it goes deeper than that. You might be a broken one and the lonely one after you say something to awful to others that it becomes the sole reason no one wants to be with you. They might notice your other positive traits, but those one-liners you keep giving to them are more like turn-offs for others when it comes to being in a relationship with you.
Based on your zodiac signs, the positive as well as negative traits you possess will develop your character a lot. They will have a role to play in the way you think and the things you say. Want to know why you always end up alone after saying what you said?
Here a few reasons why, based on your zodiac signs:
You have a penchant to be the dominating one. You are a free spirit, and that is what makes you quite a handful for your partner than they initially thought. Being so high maintenance kind of makes them not want to be with you.
Feeling safe and secure is your number one priority. That often makes you come off as someone who questions a lot – mostly because you want to know what you are getting to, whether it’s worth it and will give you the security you so badly crave. All of that makes you play it so cool at the beginning but after a while, your neediness and clinginess totally throws your partner off.
You have a dual personality, always caught up in a web of yes and no, right and left, this or that and so forth. Despite that natural charm and sweetly talkative demeanor of yours, there is still that obnoxious and nervous side to you which mostly fills you with such insecurity and loads of self-doubt that your partner is usually forced to end things with you themselves. After all, no one wants to be left hanging as you sit there resolving your internal conflicts and jumping from one decision to the other in a loop.
You have a thick layer of insecurities, mostly the likes of which make you doubt if you are good enough for the other person. Those insecurities more than often cause you to constantly keep question your partner, while at the same time needing reassurances from them that they love you, that your insecurities are just in your head. It gives to a clingy behavior, which drives the other person away.
Your ego often gets the best of you, making you somewhat negligent to the qualities your partner possesses. At first, it might seem cute to them, but after a while it becomes a huge turnoff for them and drives them away from you.
Virgos are famous for being the ultimate perfectionists – they are too critical, worry way too much and make others worried too. Their over thinking often makes their partner feel like they are good enough or doing enough and they drift apart. You have a resilient obsession with fixing things, ordering lives and so forth…something that isn’t what everyone can put up with.
It is really draining for someone to be with you because you are continuously feeling sorry for yourself. You think the world is out to get you, that it is against you. In reality, it is only you against yourself. No one wants to carry extra baggage anyway.
You have a deep sense of feeling the lesser person if you declare your weaknesses and flaws etc to your partner. There comes a point when you begin to keep so much from them, they see the good in leaving you. Being secretive to such an extent is your turn off.
You’re known to be the spontaneous one, never to settle in one place. One might never know when you will pack your bags and leave. That forces you to make empty promises, putting a doubt in your partner’s mind, that whether they can rely on you or not. You don’t really give them solid ground to stand on in the relationship.
You hold grudges and give your work the no. 1 place in your life. These things make the other person not want to be with you. They need some incentive that you’ll be ready to drop your work and be there for them when the time comes. The fact you fail to give them that is what drives them away.
The reason you are forever alone is because you tend to close off your heart and put this façade where you pretend you have no emotions whatsoever. You do that because you don’t want to be vulnerable, but all this actually does is cause your partner to walk away because you can’t be open with them.
The reason they don’t want to be with you is because of your need to have more out of everything in the relationship. It makes them feel like they’ll never be enough, so they walk away.